A Bi-Weekly Newsletter For High-Performing Women Whenever someone comes into my office expressing sadness and frustration over a conflict, one of the first questions I ask is "Have you talked to them (the other party) about it?" This was the story of one of my clients who had just turned 35. \ She was disappointed that her work bestie had not made a big deal about her birthday, because "if it was her birthday, I would have gone all out for her." She was sad and began to disconnect from her...