Dear Reader, Here's a lesson that costs most of us more time than it should. You have a vision for your life that doesn't match any path you've actually seen someone else walk. Maybe it's the business idea you can't shake. The career pivot you keep circling back to. The way you want to raise your kids, even though it looks nothing like how you were raised. And because you can't find anyone who's done it exactly the way you're picturing it, you wait. You tell yourself you're doing research....